I gave my subby a really easy set of rules to follow, which he tries to follow but at times falls short. I have punished him once before because he smoked a cigarette at a party by making him smoke a cigar and spankings for backtalking during a scene... but nothing really big Sometimes, he's such a brat, and although he wants to be good, he is even newer to submission than I am to domination. I feel like a novice rider who just bought an unbroke colt! I am fully invested in this boy, however, so I just need to be more on the ball. I gave him a really simple writing assignment. I just wanted him to make a list of ten things he has learndd about BDSM in the past two weeks and 5 questions he has for me (about anything). I have him four days to do it. I was at his house for most of those days, and I was thinking I should remind him, but I thought he would handle it on his own. It was due on Friday, but I gave him some extra time n didn't check until Monday night. (I was at his house until Sunday morning.) When I asked him if he had done it, he said "no" which he is not allowed to say to me. (He is supposed to say "I didn't do it" or "negative" or something like that, but never "no" to me.) So his punishment? A 600 word assignment and he must wear my panties until he finishes both assignments, as well as 10 lashings with my new flogger for saying no. He was pissed about the panties but ultimately, he accepted his punishment now what I'm going to do if he quits wearing them before he writes his assignments is another story... being a controlling bitch is a lot of work!