Staying soft during play

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by greenpeople, May 16, 2011.

  1. greenpeople

    greenpeople New Member

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    So I've heard some of you sub guys are told to stay soft and not get a boner while your master/mistress is doing whatever to you or you're doing whatever to or for them. I want to ask, as you are doing (or are having done to you) something sexually pleasing, how do you maintain a flaccid penis when being told to?

    Thanks! :D
  2. master jey

    master jey Moderator

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    Think about dead man drown in a swamp it'll work
  3. SFbound4fun

    SFbound4fun New Member

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    I don't think there is a perfect way ... everything I mention has drawbacks:

    Orgasm ! There are ways of making a male sub orgasm that aren't overly pleasurable like stopping all contact just prior to cumming, or sticking a penis into a "extended pleasure" condom, wait 15 mins and vibing it. The Trojan ones come in a dark green box. Those condoms really changed my sex life ... when I used to be worked up pretty good I'd cum too quick ... now I can throw on a condom and wear my wifey out :p

    Booze !

    There are drugs that will prevent boners, but some are definitely not safe for all people... discuss with a Doctor b4 you try ... in other words don't sue me ... lol

    Anti-depressants like Zoloft/Prozac ... now I've never tried one but it does seem contrary that you take an anti-depressant and then can't get a boner ...

    High Blood pressure meds ... probably not too safe...

    Reportedly stuff like Benadryl or sea sickness drugs like Dramamine will also do the trick.

    You should absolutely talk it over with a Doctor b4 you try and prescription drugs ... maybe find a kink positive one...
  4. pepeluism

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    I used to have a mistress who hated seeing me naked with an erection. She used to say my dick being up made it easier for her to kick my balls, so she did. Usually a couple of strong kicks would get my dick limp.

    Now I'm on a different situation where my mistress wants me to have a hard on the whole time. We tried a few things, but ended up with the obvious: Viagra. No matter how much she whips, beats, humiliates... dick is hard throughout!

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