My wife and I tried couple of bdsm scenes few times and it worked well. I use blindfold and tied her with some rope and cuffs acting like her master and she liked it. But she was tied in the way that she can untie herself anytime. That was the condition. Now, she is interesting in going forward with it, maybe even more than myself. Why? Because I don't know what to do. I know how to tie her because of my work but I don't know what to do and when. I know what result of my actions should be but I am not sure how to it in right way. So, I'll write you down some of problems and my ideas to solve them which you can upgrade with your advice. Using rope to tie her without chance to untie herself- She gets nervous if tying lasts for more than 1 minute. After long discussion she told me that I must move her attention to something else. To what? Anal plug, few slap on her ass or tits? Using clothespin and whip - she is afraid that they will hurt much and she runs when she see them. Should I tie her so that she can't run away? What will be the psyhic result of that? Using wax - Out of the question Using blindfold + gag - I'll try to persuade her to go to sexy shop and get gag for herself. Can you give me couple training scene examples for beginners so that I can achieve some level of obedience from her? I need it for my and hers self-confidence and to see the path I should walk. Help me with your ideas, please.