Tell my future spouse my interests in basically BDSM. I've known him for two years and we've been spending a lot of time together before we enter a serious relationship. I think he may be into it also. But I don't know how to flat out tell him I love it when he ties me up and is rough with me. Details aside but we have had sex and he has loved it when I handcuff him to the bed and basically dominate him. But I too love being dominated. It kinda sucks I don't like being a switch. But anyway. We haven't really discussed it in detail. He does love to spank, whip, and discipline me. Basically if we don't have marks by the end of the night then we're not satisfied. But what I'm trying to ask is basically, how do I flat out tell him I want more?