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I would grow to resent it, but it depends. If they were submissive, I'd feel worse for not being able to fulfill desires, but wouldn't want hurt them, and if they grew resentful, then I'd leave. If they were dominant, and I could't put up with whatever they subjected me to (honestly, if my master brought public humiliation in, I'd be done pretty fast now, but we both agreed against that), I'd prbably be more resentful, because it' something they're forcing on me moreso, in a way? I don't know exactly what I mean, so I do apologize.
Either way, those opinions are definitely restricted to my own feelings, and I doubt your partner would agree quite, especially not being familiar with BDSM. I'd say they'd first feel bad for not fulfilling your fantasies, but grow to resent if they were coerced into it too often or if you bitched about them not doing it. But I can't put words in anyone's mouth.
I think the most fair thing you could do would be to indulge both. If you can enjoy vanilla sex, I'd suggest you do that with mild elements of bdsm, and have days without any, for your partner, and days where you get to have your fantasies, for yourself. You can also try slowly exploring, in hopes of finding something you can both enjoy fully.
No matter what you decide, you'll want to keep open communication about who enjoys or doesn't enjoy what, vanilla or SM. Otherwise, you'll both grow resentful.
Edit: So, I read that 'Now that I'm in this situation' not 'Not that I'm etc', so sorry for my wording
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