Sick Days

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Her-sir, Sep 12, 2012.

  1. Her-sir

    Her-sir New Member

    I have a question about sick days/days off from playing. The other day my sub and I were talking about her denying me sex and would I just take it from her. The whole no means yes thing. Then the next night she got sick. Real sick, not just "sick" to test if I would take what I wanted. That brought up a whole new set of issues. If no means yes and you are both ok/into that, than how can my sub let me know that no really does mean no before play begins not in a safeword situation?
  2. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Discuss it when she gets sick, although this is basically the point of safewords.

    eg "I know you're sick and I want to know if you're okay with playing. I need a straight answer, not a play one."

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