I'm new to the whole idea of bondage and sm and everything else. Mostly, she just likes to be tied up and blindfolded. We don't do painful stuff, except biting and sometimes a little scratching. But, when we do have sex (usually fingering type stuff) she has such intense reactions that I literally have to strap her down just to give her an orgasm or else she'll jump around too much. It can be kind of scary at times. Does anyone have any kind of idea how I can get myself accustomed to the intensity of it all? And also, she broke her restraints the other night...does anyone know where I can find some low cost wrist restraints and a gag?