sexual anticipation help

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Mdent, Jul 17, 2012.

  1. Mdent

    Mdent New Member

    Hey it’s been a while since I have last posted.

    I am looking to do some sexual anticipation with my partner, refraining from sex or orgasm for a few days but building the tension to the point it becomes unbearable for her.

    I am just looking for ideas to increase her tension physically and psychologically, just trying to get some fresh ideas really.

    Any in put would be great thanks.

  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    You could order her to spend time each day masturbating, but forbidding her to orgasm. You could also order her to look at porn every day, or to write out a sexual fantasy every day.
  3. Mdent

    Mdent New Member

    I will definitely get her to masturbate; she doesn’t seem to be that interested in porn unfortunately.

    how effective are kegel balls at raising arousal? I have heard they can be effective but would like to hear from a first hand user, I was thinking at making her use them all day while at work, and get her to do light exercise to get the balls moving.
    Would this work?

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