Self- Bondage Questions/Advice

Phineas · Jun 22, 2008

Hey all, glad to be here, I'm just sorry it seems kinda slow

Anyway I just have a few questions- you see, I am very into self-bondage, and I love masturbating while wearing a gag, or rolled up in blankets so tight that I can't move, or better yet both. But recently I've gotten pretty bored with the old improvised tape gag/ mouth stuffed full of socks, and I am thinking I'm going to buy a trainer ball gag, because I have always found them very erotic, but I have never worn one.

If you can't tell already I don't have a partner for anything, so here's what I'm thinking- How hard is it to get a trainer gag on your own head? I'm wondering if it's difficult to buckle everything up behind your head without seeing it... Also I'm wondering how hard removal will be afterwords...

Also if anyone knows some cool self-bondage techniques/websites they wanna share please do! I am always looking for more to do. Sometimes I kinda wish I was a woman because theres so much out there in the way of toys to force orgasm while you're bound... I have a hard time finding new ways to masturbate/force orgasms as a guy in self bondage, I usually just end up rubbing on something until climax, so if any guys out there know a fun knew way to do that it would be cool too.

Thanks in advance

Phineas · Jun 25, 2008

wow, nobody huh?

ReallyGreen · Jun 26, 2008

Phineas said:
How hard is it to get a trainer gag on your own head?

Very easy. Open mouth -> insert ball -> buckle or tie gag behind head. Expect to drool.

I'm wondering if it's difficult to buckle everything up behind your head without seeing it

If you can't buckle a belt or tie a shoelace knot with your eyes closed, you have far more serious issues in your life to worry about.

Also I'm wondering how hard removal will be afterwords

If your hands are free it wont be a problem.

Try this: Take your regular pants belt, open your mouth and bite in the middle. Then buckle said belt behind your head. If you can do that you'll be just fine.

Phineas · Jun 28, 2008

fair enough, thanks.

ReallyGreen · Jun 28, 2008

It might not fall into the category of bondage but you may want to try something like the CB-3000 ( a chastity device) which is discreet enough to wear under clothes. Lock it up and leave the key somewhere you wont be able to get to it for awhile (Like at work before you go home and force yourself to watch 3 hours of porn).

Sorry I can be more helpful but bondage is one of those things, unlike masturbation, that I couldn't imagine being sexy or fun by yourself.

Stargazer · Jun 28, 2008

Masturbation is sexy and fun?

Maybe when I was 14 or thereabouts, but after that it was a constant reminder that something was desperately lacking.

Now I only do it because after 13 years I have no idea how the hell to stop.

ReallyGreen · Jun 28, 2008

If masturbation isn't fun then you're probably doing it wrong.

Stargazer · Jun 28, 2008

lol...

I dunno how else I could do it... I stimulate, masturbate, have a 'oh, it's not real sex' kind of climax, use up a bit more tissue and then I'm done.

No matter what I'm thinking of, what speed I do it, and no matter what accessories I use, it's only ever me yanking myself off. Having my wife do it for me feels really satisfying, having real sex feels really satisfying... Self masturbation is just dull.

However, everybody's wired up differently. I suppose we're just two sides of the coin on this subject.

Anyway, thread derailed... Apologies to Phineas for that. I'll allow it to go back to self-bondage from here-on.

ReallyGreen · Jun 28, 2008

You might try cock & ball rope bondage. That might be fun by yourself.

bettie_slave · Jul 5, 2008

I tried self bondage the other night

I bound my wrists and ankles with electrical tape. I was naked apart from my collar and leash and I had my master on the phone talking to me for an hour or so, and i came alot within that time.
I'm looking at buying some rope at the moment, just don't know what is suitable for bondage? How thick it should be, etc.

It is definitely easier for girls to get off during self bondage, I wouldn't be able to recommend ways for you, sorry. But, I do have some images and links for you in ways to do bondage, using rope.

http://www.easternrope.com/fashions2/index.php?lang=en&theme=default

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