Self bondage ideas

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Bondage Mad, Jun 19, 2010.

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  1. Bondage Mad

    Bondage Mad New Member

    Hi, evry1, i am male and my partner has gone away for the weekend and i wanted to try some self bondage, any ideas would be appreciated but here r some of the things i was thinking about: Zippers, water bondage, forced orgasms (not sure how) and eating my own cum.

    What do u think and any other ideas plz...
     
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  2. Bondage Mad

    Bondage Mad New Member

    sorry I also forgot i wan to try some anal play...
     
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    As the Safety Officer on the good ship SMplace, let me just give you my obligatory statement that self-bondage is extremely risky. Do not, repeat do not, completely immobilize yourself, no matter how exciting that might be. Always, repeat always, leave one hand free in case you need to free yourself quickly (and so you can jack off too). The self-bondage stunts you may have seen on the internet are not true self-bondage because there are always people there off camera to help the sub if something goes wrong. Doing full self-bondage with no one around is sort of like playing a lottery where the prize is a free trip to the morgue.
     
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  4. RFiend

    RFiend New Member

    I'll add a firm AGREE with sebastian... having accidentally done a full hog-tie on myself once when I left the safety shears up on the counter. Oops. It took me a over a half-hour to work myself loose, and my hands were numb by the time I'd finished getting one free.

    I've seen lots of different methods used to release yourself in a self-bondage situation, but it's not something you want to go head-first into over a weekend without a bit of practice. I like ice to drop a key / shears / whatever after a set amount of time, but you need to try it first to figure out if the time delay is too long. Mechanical or electrical timers scare me... Murphy's Law dictates that they'll fail JUST when you need them the most.

    Quoting The X-Files, 'Clyde Bruckman's Final Repose':
    Clyde Bruckman (to Muldur): "There are worse ways to go, but I can't think of a more undignified one than auto-erotic asphyxiation."
     
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Out of curiosity, how does one "accidentally" hog-tie one's self?

    The problem with things like ice drops is there's no way to get loose quickly until the ice melts. Lots of things can go wrong in the time it takes an ice cube to melt.
     
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  6. L8NightQ

    L8NightQ Member

    Rfiend - like your avatar

    But I got the same question as Sebastian

    How do you accidentally hog tie yourself?

    .....and welcome
     
  7. Morion

    Morion New Member

    If you want hands-free anal play, the aneros is quite a popular option.

    For 'self-bondage', I have frequently experimented with finding the 'feeling' without the risk. For example, on an old bed I once owned, the bed-head had a gap just below the mattress level. I could force a limb of two between the mattress and bed-head which gave me the pressure and feeling of being restrained, but it only required a little strength to pull out again. You may also find you can get what you are looking for by focusing on the feeling.
     
  8. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Yes to the aneros. Prostate massagers can be used hands free. The thrusting down of the pelvis drives the massager against the prostate perfectly well.
     
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