self bondage ideas or email mistress

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by bondagemann19, Mar 2, 2013.

  1. bondagemann19

    bondagemann19 New Member

    I enjoy doing self bondage but I don't really want to spend money on expensive toys. I have a pair of handcuffs but unfortunately then have that safety latch installed on it so I can get out easily without using a key:(. I also own one set of anal beads. I just want some fun self bondage ideas or even a mistress whom I can email.
     
  2. For the bondage device...cheap and simple. Go to a hardware store and buy a few feet of thin metal chain and a couple of padlocks. I bet the whole thing would be less than $10.

    Wrap the chain several times around your wrists to spread the load, and it doesn't need to be too tight - so don't risk limiting the blood supply.

    For a "timer", I found this interesting variation on the ice cube method.

    http://www.boundanna.com/html/en_tech_iceinbottle.html

    You can keep a junior hacksaw close by as a safety backup - but cutting through chains will take a while!


    OK...so now to make it more "challenging" for you.

    I'm not sure if this will work, but recently Sebastian reminded me about the use of ginger root applied to sensitive areas.

    Here's my idea.

    You can buy "cock-shaped moulds" pretty cheaply to make novely ice lollies and stuff.

    http://www.lakeland.co.uk/13025/Ice-Lolly-Moulds

    Carve a piece of ginger for anal instertion. However, before you insert it, make a batch of gelatin soution (make a really strong batch that will set quite firmly).

    Use the ice lolly mould to coat the ginger in gelatin, and let it set. So now you have the ginger coated in a stiff gelatin layer.

    (Note that you need to carve the ginger with a "knob" on the end so there's no risk of it slipping right inside you.)

    So here's what I think would happen. You'll need to figure out a "timed bondage" technique - like the classic "key in the ice cube" method.

    But before you lock yourself up, you slip the gelatin-coated ginger into your ass. Then put on a pair of Speedos or something really tight so you can't wiggle it loose.

    At first nothing will happen because the gelatin is protecting you from the ginger, but gradually the combination of the anal lube and your body heat will melt the gelatin and expose the ginger. But there's nothing you can do about it until your time is up, and you have the key to unlock yourself.

    It's like having a ticking time bomb in your ass :)

    If you wanted to keep the ginger "coated" for longer, maybe use chocolate instead of gelatin. As long as you stick to materials that are edible I don't think there's a safetly issue. Chocolate with higher cocoa content will take longer to melt, and the cocoa fat will probably protect you from the ginger for longer too.


    Another idea - instead of ginger you could make a gelatin "ice lolly", but then use an apple corer to hollow out the center. Fill the center with Deep Heat (I think you Americans call it Icy Cold, or something...it's a cream for muscle strains). When the gelatin melts you will feel it!


    you might need to experiment a bit - I'm wondering if either gelatin or chocolate is strong enough to allow the lolly to be inserted in your ass without breaking right away. Maybe other folks would have a suggestion for some materials that would work.


    Is that the kind of idea you were looking for?

    Cheers,
    Stanley
     
    Last edited: Mar 2, 2013
  3. bondagemann19

    bondagemann19 New Member

    Thank you very much for the idea!
     
  4. missjaysumms

    missjaysumms New Member

    you could also take the ginger and freeze it in water or something of the sort, molded in the shape that stanley suggested... I am sure the cold would be quite thrilling.

    I'm a little crazier.. I like to use peppers of various heat
     
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Please be exceptional careful. Self-bondage is quite risky if you go for complete immobilization. There are numerous documented cases of fatalities from self-bondage. ALWAYS give yourself a contingency plan if an emergency such as a fire happens. I realize that means that your self-bondage is going to be less satisfying, but the only alternative is to gamble with your life. Please don't do that.
     
  6. I totally agree with Sebastian. In fact the Wikipedia page on self bondage gives some ideas for emergency release options.

    One simple way is to put a key in a pot of paint that's above the bed (or wherever you are chained up). To get to the key you have to pull on a string and the paint pours all over you. Obviously you would only do that as a last resort - but as Sebastian points out - your life is the most important thing!
     
  7. I wondered about water - but if there was eniugh thickness of ice could that cause frostbite? I would think that would be extremely serious.

    Suppositories use some kind of soluble wax, I think. One of the tips I heard (I used to live in France, and they love taking medication in that way for some reason!) is to put the suppositories in the fridge so the wax is firm enough to allow insertion.

    I'd repeat my advice - make sure whatever you use is "edible" and I think you should be fine.
     

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