I suppose I have a bit of explaining to do first. I am an 18 year old girl. My boyfriend is 24. After some convincing in bed, I finally got him to agree with trying BDSM; specially, my domination of him. He has become more enthusiastic as time has gone on, and we are planning to make it something special. I was originally a sub. I started my sexual experience being very abused, and used submissiveness to protect myself and make sex easier, when deep inside, I knew that I was meant to dominate, and dominate full forced. Every sexual relationships I have ever had, it bubbled inside me, and only now have I felt confident enough to be the person I know I am. It has come to the point where when I sleep with him, I can't even "fully enjoy" the experience unless I imagine him fully submitting to me. I think about it far too often. My boyfriend was actually the opposite. He has never experienced the feeling of being submissive sexually. Previous to me, he believed firmly that it was a man's place to take control in the bedroom. He has slept with countless women and has more experience under his belt then me. Regardless, he says that I make him want to submit when we are together, and would like to attempt (if even once) to be my slave [[in bedroom play only]]. I am now at a stand still, because im not sure what to do. So community, I come to you. - What is the best way to break a strong willed, but willing potential slave. - What are some good lines/things to call my man? What are some classic ways to demand? He tells me that he would love to be humiliated and demeaned. - I am not very creative. I know I want to play with some sharp objects, tie him up, and bind him, but what are some other good bedroom activities for a female to do to a male. - how can I best prepare myself for my first experience as a master. Ultimately, I want to make this a lasting relationship, but also a relationship that does not extend outside the bedroom. any additional information would be very helpful. Thank you!