I am really not one to judge, nor do i want to be one to judge. Recently i have heard on the news that 2 boys (ages 9 and 11) tortures 2 other kids aged (8 and 10). They managed to hit them with bricks, hit them with poles, burn their eyes with cigarettes and make them be sexual with each other. You can read the story here for yourself: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/6130899/Schoolboys-plead-guilty-to-torture-attack.html Basically what im getting to here, is i enjoy a little pain, it is fun, eg: ice, nipple torture, whip, that type of thing. BUT.... It is only good when both party's are in agreement... I just dont understand how 2 kids could do this to 2 other kids, i really scares me and makes me wonder what the world is coming to. It said on the news that one of the boys pleaded to be left to die from being in so much pain. Ive also read online about people who really are sadists and how they really would love to kill people, i just done understand what is going through their mind, or how they could do such terrible things, and the victim cant do anything about it, how can someone put someone else in so much pain, i know they can...but i dont understand why they cant think "what if what im doing to the victim was happening to me, how much pain would i be in? how terrible must this be for the victim?" The reason i ask these things, is because i believe there are probably a few sadistic people on here, most who probably wouldn't harm anyone to the point of seriously inflicting pain, but maybe some who do, so why? how can they do these things and not think about the pain the victim must be going through. Im not judging, i dont agree, but im not judging, i just want to know what theyre thinking, im so confused Help me. Thanks David.