Ok, so i love most general things about BDSM lifestyle.... except S&M (pain play) This makes me very sad sometimes.... That i just cant enjoy it, pain is a turn-off for me. And inflicting serious pain is also a turn-off for me (however i dont mind whipping my slave, spanking hard, slapping) its just the hardcore stuff like bloodletting, and torture that i cant stomach. The problem im having is that so many people love pain-play, and i want to be more flexible in what i can do, but its really tough for me to go through with S&M. is anyone else in a similar situation? Is there anything i could do to improve my flexibility with this?