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1) I don't have experience with a 24/7 relationship, or with parenting, but one common protocol is to require the slave to keep a journal (so many words a day or pages as week or whatever); the slave might record his general thoughts, or describe a fantasy every day, or provide reactions to the scene you did last night. This keeps the slave focused on submission and gives the master some feedback about what the slave does and doesn't like. With children, it will probably feel awkward using 'slave' and 'master' or whatever terms you like. But you could agree that unless you're alone, you will say 'dear' when you mean 'master', and she will say 'honey' when she means 'slave'. You two know what those words really mean, but they look totally vanilla to anyone else, including the kids.
2) I'm not sure what this question is really asking. Are you asking about how you see your master, how your master sees himself, or how other doms and subs in the community see your master? There isn't a universal thing that masters do or wear that has a direct parallel to a slave's collar. But in general, masters tend to wear black and leather when they want to feel and appear more dominant. Loosely speaking, the left of the body is coded for doms, and the right side for subs, so dominant gay men will wear keys or a flogger on the left hip, a leather armband on the left arm, or handcuffs on the left shoulder of a jacket, while subs would wear those things on the right. This is less standard in the straight community, but a flogger or crop on the left is pretty common.
If your master feels a need for something to wear that says 'I'm the dom', a leather jacket can be a wonderful place to start. Leather feels very powerful and it really brings out some men's aggressive instincts. Or perhaps you might give him a ring or a pendant that symbolizes his control of you. Or if your collar has a lock on it, he might carry the key on his key ring or on a chain around his neck as a constant reminder of his authority. Boots are another symbol of dominance. Tall boots (like motorcycle boots) change the way you walk (you can't bend your ankles very far), which creates a sense of power, and of course, slaves can lick them or spend time polishing them.
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First; what are some of the general standing (or most common) rules for a relationship? Such as rules of ettiquette in the relationship and how the workings of the relationship happen day to day when the Master and slave are married with 3 small children. Second; the slave wears a collar but what can the Master do to differentiate himself from his vanilla counterparts in the world? Thank Y/you for any help and/or advice Y/you may have!
