Reasons / Excuses for punishment

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by vongikking, Jul 26, 2009.

  1. vongikking

    vongikking New Member

    Hello people, a few days ago I was walking from the super market with my girlfriend/sub, it was raining and she was carrying the bags as I ordered wile I was holding the umbrela, because of the rain, even with a big umbrela, she had to keep close to me (I ordered her to, I didn't want her to get a cold) and kept hitting my leg with the bags (with no intention).

    So I was wondering what most Doms/Mistress would prefer, to punish a sub/slave for this he/her could not prevent/creating situations that the sub would obviously fail, or assing some task that has a degree of dificulty but also a chance of the sub to succeed?

    Hope I was clear enough.
  2. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    it's your choice when you want to punish your sub and you don't have any reason you can just create
    but i think you should speak about it with your sub people hate getting in siuations like thet it's her choice
  3. vongikking

    vongikking New Member

    Sorry, let me clearify, its not a doubt about "what should I do" or "what is the right thing to do", me and my sub practice SSC, the doubt was just a curiosity about what others are more into.
    Last edited: Jul 26, 2009
  4. monocrome

    monocrome Member

    i have a personal hatred for the "impossible task" or getting angry/punished (unless you're talking about being playful) for something i absolutely cannot help. i guess the question would be, if she tried harder, could she have made that not happen?
  5. vongikking

    vongikking New Member

    For the specific sitution that I mentioned I didn't punished her, because it was an impossible task, in one hand, she shoud have carried the bags without hitting me, but in other hand, I ordered her to stay close to me and not get wet, actualy I got wetter than her because I was concerned for her health.

    I've never considered impossible tasks, but its also something that its not outside the realm of possibilities, its just I sometimes feel a little bit lame punishing her for things like forgetting to bring me something unimportant.

    Usualy my reasons consist in cumming withot advice (sheis extremly orgasmic so it hapens quite often) and simple things like droping something fragil, even if it dosent break.

    But I´l allways looking for new possibilities.
  6. Master C

    Master C Member

    Giving a sub an impossible task, just makes them angry. It is not recommended that you do that, as the more resent a sub has towards her master, the more likely the chance if you have given her the right to walk, she will.
  7. monocrome

    monocrome Member

    just imho, perhaps you should think about which tasks she knows she will be punished for and how important certain things are to you.

    as for the impossible task, just make sure you know how wrapped up her emotional state is with regard to what ANY task you give her REALLY is: pleasing you. i think to some, it is the amusement gained from "the impossible task" task that is the pleasing but i know i, for one, can't seem to understand that emotionally.

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