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I have been there, in a different scenarios, but maybe not the way you see it. If you're talking about a full snatch, drag-away screaming and kicking, and clothes ripping - no, but I'll comment for what it's worth.
What seems to make the fantasy work has more to do with mindset than actual acting. One of the first scenes I participated in was a rape scene. Funny thing though.... I didn't know about it till we were well into it. I know it worked for her. I was a tool.
That's just it.... She was there (in her mind) way before I know what was going on (early college years). When she would push me away and say no, I had to stop. Once she convinced me to keep going we were fine, but I still didn't quite get the whole picture till we were done.
What I'm trying to say is that the most critical part of any scene is to believe that you are there.
The more common scenes are date rape, or prison rape. In a prison scene she knows she is confined with me and struggles as I tie her up and take her clothes off, or take the clothes and then tie, or force her to disrobe then tie, well, whatever. Then, I get to have my way with her while she struggles to stop me and to escape. I've even voiced several roles of different people abusing her until the boss comes. (yes, I'm the boss too) This worked too.
In a date rape scene we're already inside but she doesn't know me very well. Just well enough to come home with me for one last drink. Then she turns me on to much and she has to complete the act (but again, at some point I tie her up then too). Usually starts with something like "I've got to have you, I'm sorry, it won't take long, Just let me.....for a little while" then when I have her tied I can take my time with her.
We trust each other very much and I've learned to read her almost perfectly, so the scenes play out very well for us.
With someone new, I wouldn't even try it unless I knew everything I needed to know, especially about her past. I've been with two women who had been molested or raped and that line goes no where. I don't even remember tying them up. Just brings up to much hurt inside. But for those that like it, we try it.
The Dominant one just has to have the imagination to say the right things in the right tone to make her believe that it's happening against her will..... Which is what power exchange is all about.
It's hard to discuss this even among those like me, because I don't like that some dominants actually seem to like real forced rape videos. I see what I do with a partner very differently than that, but I guess it makes me feel like I might be type-cast.
Anyway, communication and trust seem to be the most important elements in any scene, including this one.
Might be best to have a drink, relax in the dark and really talk about this fantasy. Really talk it through. The more you describe, the more he can adapt the persona of the person in the scene you imagine. Once he has the same image in his head as you do of exactly who he is and what he likes to do to you, and what he says do you while he's doing it..... the closer he will be to that person.
No drain on him if he is into it for both of you. I don't really have a point of reference (regarding all Doms) but I can't get any fulfillment out of a scene where my sub is not truly enjoying herself. All the things I do to my sub are to bring out the raw sexuality that I like to feed on. So no, no drain at all. We both feel great after a good scene like that, or just about any other.
I have no idea how much you guys have matured in this lifestyle but I've got a feeling that if you get into it with the right frame of mind, it will be immensely enjoyable and fulfilling, and it will be just another one of your favorites.
Hope this helps.
P.S. Took me a while to write this. I'd like to hear from MoP also on this.
What seems to make the fantasy work has more to do with mindset than actual acting. One of the first scenes I participated in was a rape scene. Funny thing though.... I didn't know about it till we were well into it. I know it worked for her. I was a tool.
That's just it.... She was there (in her mind) way before I know what was going on (early college years). When she would push me away and say no, I had to stop. Once she convinced me to keep going we were fine, but I still didn't quite get the whole picture till we were done.
What I'm trying to say is that the most critical part of any scene is to believe that you are there.
The more common scenes are date rape, or prison rape. In a prison scene she knows she is confined with me and struggles as I tie her up and take her clothes off, or take the clothes and then tie, or force her to disrobe then tie, well, whatever. Then, I get to have my way with her while she struggles to stop me and to escape. I've even voiced several roles of different people abusing her until the boss comes. (yes, I'm the boss too) This worked too.
In a date rape scene we're already inside but she doesn't know me very well. Just well enough to come home with me for one last drink. Then she turns me on to much and she has to complete the act (but again, at some point I tie her up then too). Usually starts with something like "I've got to have you, I'm sorry, it won't take long, Just let me.....for a little while" then when I have her tied I can take my time with her.
We trust each other very much and I've learned to read her almost perfectly, so the scenes play out very well for us.
With someone new, I wouldn't even try it unless I knew everything I needed to know, especially about her past. I've been with two women who had been molested or raped and that line goes no where. I don't even remember tying them up. Just brings up to much hurt inside. But for those that like it, we try it.
The Dominant one just has to have the imagination to say the right things in the right tone to make her believe that it's happening against her will..... Which is what power exchange is all about.
It's hard to discuss this even among those like me, because I don't like that some dominants actually seem to like real forced rape videos. I see what I do with a partner very differently than that, but I guess it makes me feel like I might be type-cast.
Anyway, communication and trust seem to be the most important elements in any scene, including this one.
Might be best to have a drink, relax in the dark and really talk about this fantasy. Really talk it through. The more you describe, the more he can adapt the persona of the person in the scene you imagine. Once he has the same image in his head as you do of exactly who he is and what he likes to do to you, and what he says do you while he's doing it..... the closer he will be to that person.
No drain on him if he is into it for both of you. I don't really have a point of reference (regarding all Doms) but I can't get any fulfillment out of a scene where my sub is not truly enjoying herself. All the things I do to my sub are to bring out the raw sexuality that I like to feed on. So no, no drain at all. We both feel great after a good scene like that, or just about any other.
I have no idea how much you guys have matured in this lifestyle but I've got a feeling that if you get into it with the right frame of mind, it will be immensely enjoyable and fulfilling, and it will be just another one of your favorites.
Hope this helps.
P.S. Took me a while to write this. I'd like to hear from MoP also on this.
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