My wife/sub and I have a friend who we just out of the closet with. Here is my delema, he is very into her and she is very into the idea of someone other then me watching her. Would it be wrong of me to have her put on a show for him? She had said (before we came out to him) she would rather keep their interactions vanilla, but I KNOW they would both enjoy it. BTW he is bdsm curious but not active And how, if I decide to go through with it, do I keep it from setting up false expectations for him? Neither her or I would ever want him to fuck her.