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Erie, a good question. I think the answer is normally, "yes''.
1). As I said, I was feeling like I couldn't dom him. So this helped me see that I could.
2) Subs need to experience their Dom as someone who is strong, aggressive, and confident, and this established that fairly quickly.
3) Subs need to get into submissive headspace, and they won't enjoy the experience as much if they can't get there. In my experience, thinking is the enemy of feeling. I use analysis to buffer my feelings; that's why I could see him doing it. By forcing him to drop that buffer, I helped him move into a place where he could feel the feelings he wanted to feel but wasn't allowing. Many subs need to be forced to feel things they want to feel but can't let themselves feel.
That said, you shouldn't mess with all a sub's defenses just because you can. A Dom should only play headgames that he can be responsible for. If you train a sub to be emotionally dependent on you, it is wrong to simply dump the sub without rebuilding their emotional independence. I know two subs who were treated that way, and both felt like wild animals for a long time afterward.
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