In our sex life, my husband is my dominant and I am his submissive, but in our day-to-day lives, I am more dominant and he is more submissive. I am trying to bring out his more dominant nature during the day, reminding him that he is my Master and my body belongs to him through text messages while we are at work. Does anyone have any suggestions of other ways? On Wednesday nights he stays out late (after the kids are in bed) and I always ask him how he wants me when he gets home. He knows I have turned complete control of our sex life and myself to him, I just need some guidance on making him more dominant during the day. Also, is anyone else a submissive at night and a dominant during the day?