I have been reading through this forum and it has offered some great advice. sorry if this is a little long, i wanna give a clear background for everyone. I am sorry I have no idea about this lifestyle, but I am eager to learn. I met a wonderful man who is my other half. We have so much in common and feel the same way about almost everything. I have NEVER felt to compatible with anyone ever in my life. The whole soul mates thing.. I never believed til now. Lets start with saying he is 30 i am 21. He takes such good care of me, and tends to all my needs and wants. He is genuine and sincere, and a very sweet docile person. I too am very docile, and have a VERY submissive personality in and out of the bedroom. In the bedroom he is very dominant. I enjoy being a slave, being told what to do and testing my boundaries. But have never considered bdsm before him. We have bought me a training collar, but have yet to use it. He is very in tune with me and he says he will teach me slow, as I have yet to experience anything of the sort. He can pleasure me like no one ever has, and I crave more and more each day. I want to please him. I want to be the best slave. I crave him to be proud of me, and I want to serve him. Is this all very normal? What would an experienced dom love to see? What are my obligations?