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Beginning rope bondage generally falls into two categories: immobilization (restraint) and decorative (Artistic) enhancement. You can learn various lacing patterns pretty quickly from browsing online and working with a willing partner. Immobilization takes a little more skill and care. If you’ve done any reading you’ll know about the 2 finger rule. (Read the safety FAQs. Take a look at the extraction tools thread I posted.)You’ll want all constricting ties to be loose enough to allow two fingers inserted underneath. It’s also imperative that all ties be locked so that they are not self constricting. You can teach this to yourself through study and reading but you will want to practice outside of a BDSM scene so that you know your ties will not slip or tighten during play.
For beginning immobilization I recommend starting with a good set of leather restraint cuffs. Running the ropes though the d-rings allows for quick tying and release and negates the danger of constriction injuries. Please make sure you research all the no tie zones to prevent nerve or circulation problems. If you are considering any suspension play you should seek out a mentor or attend training. Like any skill you should plan on learning a base skillset and expanding your repertoire.
Rope type is a very personal preference. Most use cotton, hemp, or nylon. They all have advantages as disadvantages and completely different tactile sensations. For beginners I usually suggest a couple of soft 25 foot, diamond weave, nylon ropes at 6mm diameter. This can be picked up at the building supplies stores very cheaply. IMO the spooled rope tends to be a little softer and better quality than the bulk packages. You can always invest in “bondage” rope in different colors, materials and sizes as your skills increase. I actually prefer cotton for the lower burn rate, but it can be difficult to find in a diamond weave which I think is better for beginners. The diameter and length of the rope you use depends on what you are doing. Breast constriction bondage with a 3/8 inch rope can be very difficult whereas building a bondage bra or breast shelf is easier with the same rope.
Knot-wise you don't really need a lot to get started - a good handcuff knot, a single-limb cuff, the bowline (which is used in many cuff knots), a square and sheer lashing (for arm to leg or leg to leg) and a granny knot. Stay away from larks heads and any slip, self-constricting knots. In fact, a lot of ties don't finish with a knot, the tag end is just wrapped or tucked under the bind.
The trick is to pick one thing, like a single cuff, get that down and then move to something else that build on that like converting the single cuff to handcuff.
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and loved them both. and thanks for the suggestion about the rope.
