new submissive

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by jcbeautifulslut, Feb 2, 2013.

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    my daddy and i are new to being a sub/master
    my daddy is great (i think) but i would like to be able to do as much as possible to be a great submissive for him
    does anyone have some advice?
  2. sebastian

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    Have you read the Newcomer's FAQ? There is a lot of good advice there if you haven't. As a new kinkster, my basic advice to you would be to read everything you can find. You need to learn what safe play looks like, what role consent plays in BDSM, the range of play that you and he can explore, and so on.

    For you specifically as a sub, the basic advice is to let your dom guide you. Rather than asking us what you should be, ask him what he wants from you and then do your best to do that. The challenge here is that as a new dom, he may not be sure what he wants you to be yet.

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