new playmates

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by lee575, Aug 23, 2011.

  1. lee575

    lee575 New Member

    it seems to be harder and harder to locate a playmate for online or real life play. ive been into the scene for 10 years now and it just seems that fewer people are willing to contact others or very reserved in doing so. has anyone else noticed this?
     
  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    No. My experience is quite the opposite. I'm routinely bombarded by requests to play. I'm a gay man, and BDSM is somewhat more acceptable in my community, but overall I get more offers than I can or want to accommodate.
     
  3. HisFox

    HisFox Member

    That's because everyone see what a good Dom and person you are, Sebastian :)
     
  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    His: Thanks for the vote of confidence, but I get turned down all the time. Lots of guys fail to see what you think is so obvious.
     
  5. Knots

    Knots Member

    Can't be to everyone's taste.
     
  6. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Exactly. And more's the pity.
     
  7. HisFox

    HisFox Member

    Nah they are just stupid :D can't see why anyone would turn you down (yep, i know, tastes differ, but still).
     

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