I meet a sub online, and I'm going to meet her today. I have played around with another girls before, but not enough. Plus this girl seems more hard core. She's into being punished, slapping, spanking, forced anal, and cutting. I'm not into the cutting, and I already told her that. The rest I'm eager to try. But I'm a little nervous due to lack of experience. So I have a few questions. How hard do you think I can hit her. Should I start up light, and work my way up until she lets me know? When I first meet her should I be dominate right off the bat, or be normal at first and then get into it. I would just like to say that I am looking forward to this, and its like a deep dark fantasy of mine, because normally I am a really nice mellow person.