Hi all... I'm new here, I'm generally anxious about posting things like this, but things aren't going to get better if I don't figure this out. Some background:I'm 21, been married for 13 months, and these sexual issues started after marriage. My husband goes through spurts of varying sex drives. Ex. Six months have sex twice a day, then six months sex twice a month. He's been like this his whole life. Sadly, I want sex ALL the time. In the beginning, he was ectastic about finding me. I'm his ideal type: half Persian, short, hour-glass curvy, giant hips, ass and tits. on top of this, I delight in being submissive. We sometimes would still have vanilla sex, but other than that I loved to be choked, slapped, whipped, teased. I'm the first woman who let him experience this, and it was a match made in heaven. For some reason, our kink sex slowed down, and then became non existent. I'm no longer getting the sex I crave, and having an itch he won't scratch is becoming almost physically uncomfortable for me. I miss it SO much. When we talk about it, he says he misses it too, he will change, etc. But nothing ever changes. I love my husband dearly, but I'm getting to the point I want a man to dominate me, and then I also want my husband for everything else. Thinking that way makes me feel horribly guilty. I'm not quite sure how to get back on track to our original, amazing sex life. And I'm not even sure why it changed, he always says I don't know. Does anyone else have experience with this? Any insight or suggestions? I'm brand new here, I feel stupid for introducing myself and immediately complaining. I guess I'm just a bit lost. Sorry for the novel!