Hi me and my husband have been discussing this for some time now, I want to be the Dom and him my sub he also wants this relationship, but the issues I am having is the punishments.... He enjoys anal play and he also enjoys tasting his own cum.. I like the thought of paddling or using a riding crop on his ass for his conditioning every night or maye once a week to begin!! If I could get any ideas that would be greatly appreciated!! If any Doms on here live in Southern California would love to get together and discuss this in person as well!! Thanks in advace for any and all feedback!!