need advice

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by masoomdon, Nov 5, 2009.

  1. masoomdon

    masoomdon New Member

    hello everyone this is don i am new to this forum and to this whole concept . i hardly have any knowledge on bdsm and its aspects. hope someone out here would be kind enough to provide me references to books/online resources to gain an insight into your world.
  2. Sub4Life

    Sub4Life Member

    I'm not good at giving this kind of advice, so I will let the more experienced members help.

    But Welcome!
  3. BDSM is a pretty broad topic. This is a list I found on another forum that seems to be pretty complete.


    Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence
    by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy

    Owned and Owner
    by Anneke Jacob

    Leather Daddy and the Femme
    by Carol Queen

    Mr. Benson : A Novel
    by John Preston

    Carrie's Story
    by Molly Weatherfield

    The complete slave: Creating and Living the Erotic Domiannt/Submissive Lifestyle
    by Jack Rinelle

    The Loving Dominant
    by John Warren

    Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
    by Philip Miller, Molly Devon

    The New Topping book
    by by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy

    Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
    by Claudia Varrin

    Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook
    by Jay Wiseman

    The New Bottoming Book
    by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton

    The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
    by Jack Rinella

    Different Loving : A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission

    Story of O

    SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools
    by Guy Baldwin

    The Marketplace (The Marketplace Series, 1)
    by Laura Antoniou

    Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships
    by Jack Rinella


    Great BDSM Books
    by Anya, Lifestyle Dominant

    (about 25 books in this list, seems like it is a great list. It has Come hither in it)

    BDSM Nonfiction
    by Send_Me_Books, Literary dominatrix, a pro

    One More and i think this is more of a Fictional list

    Recomandations for the perverted intellect.
    by princess_dominique, Dominant intellectual

    <Edited for the input of the Ethical Slut>

    The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
    by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt

    Similiar books to The Ethical Slut :

    Curtsy of In no way do i recommend or am advertising these books. In reality i havent read many of them! But now that i know where to find them.
  4. masoomdon

    masoomdon New Member

    wow thanks a lot for your instant advice and i hope to read as many of these above books as time permits. am really gratefull for ur advice. i hope i have a nice time here.

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