BDSM is a pretty broad topic. This is a list I found on another forum that seems to be pretty complete.
Links
Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence
by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...1/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035
Owned and Owner
by Anneke Jacob
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_3/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books
Leather Daddy and the Femme
by Carol Queen
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books
Mr. Benson : A Novel
by John Preston
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books
Carrie's Story
by Molly Weatherfield
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books
The complete slave: Creating and Living the Erotic Domiannt/Submissive Lifestyle
by Jack Rinelle
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-4/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_4/002-0462390-2712035
The Loving Dominant
by John Warren
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
by Philip Miller, Molly Devon
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-2/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_2/002-0462390-2712035
The New Topping book
by by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...6/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
by Claudia Varrin
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...5/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook
by Jay Wiseman
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...4/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
The New Bottoming Book
by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
http://www.collarme.com/forum/post.asp?do=reply&messageID=72451&toStyle=tm
The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
by Jack Rinella
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...2/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
Different Loving : A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
by WILLIAM BRAME, GLORIA BRAME, JON JACOBS
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books
Story of O
by PAULINE REAGE
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...5/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools
by Guy Baldwin
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...4/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
The Marketplace (The Marketplace Series, 1)
by Laura Antoniou
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...0/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035
Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships
by Jack Rinella
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...6/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
AND
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Great BDSM Books
by Anya, Lifestyle Dominant
(about 25 books in this list, seems like it is a great list. It has Come hither in it)
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8765635/sr=5-2/ref=sr_5_2/002-0462390-2712035
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BDSM Nonfiction
by Send_Me_Books, Literary dominatrix, a pro
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8765635/sr=5-1/ref=sr_5_1/002-0462390-2712035
One More and i think this is more of a Fictional list
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Recomandations for the perverted intellect.
by princess_dominique, Dominant intellectual
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8766658/sr=5-1/ref=sr_5_1/002-0462390-2712035
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The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...7/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035
Similiar books to The Ethical Slut :
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/s...2520slut&store-name=books/002-0462390-2712035
Curtsy of Amazon.com. In no way do i recommend or am advertising these books. In reality i havent read many of them! But now that i know where to find them.