need advice

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by masoomdon, Nov 5, 2009.

  1. masoomdon

    masoomdon New Member

    hello everyone this is don i am new to this forum and to this whole concept . i hardly have any knowledge on bdsm and its aspects. hope someone out here would be kind enough to provide me references to books/online resources to gain an insight into your world.
     
  2. Sub4Life

    Sub4Life Member

    I'm not good at giving this kind of advice, so I will let the more experienced members help.

    But Welcome!
     
  3. BDSM is a pretty broad topic. This is a list I found on another forum that seems to be pretty complete.

    Links

    Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence
    by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...1/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035

    Owned and Owner
    by Anneke Jacob

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_3/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books

    Leather Daddy and the Femme
    by Carol Queen

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books

    Mr. Benson : A Novel
    by John Preston

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books

    Carrie's Story
    by Molly Weatherfield

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books

    The complete slave: Creating and Living the Erotic Domiannt/Submissive Lifestyle
    by Jack Rinelle

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-4/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_4/002-0462390-2712035

    The Loving Dominant
    by John Warren

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035

    Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
    by Philip Miller, Molly Devon

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...5/sr=2-2/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_2/002-0462390-2712035

    The New Topping book
    by by Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...6/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
    by Claudia Varrin

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...5/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook
    by Jay Wiseman

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...4/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    The New Bottoming Book
    by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton

    http://www.collarme.com/forum/post.asp?do=reply&messageID=72451&toStyle=tm

    The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
    by Jack Rinella

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...2/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    Different Loving : A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
    by WILLIAM BRAME, GLORIA BRAME, JON JACOBS

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...f=sr_1_1/002-0462390-2712035?v=glance&s=books

    Story of O
    by PAULINE REAGE

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...5/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude--Principles, Skills and Tools
    by Guy Baldwin

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...4/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    The Marketplace (The Marketplace Series, 1)
    by Laura Antoniou

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...0/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035

    Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships
    by Jack Rinella

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...6/002-0462390-2712035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

    AND

    Listmania!
    Great BDSM Books
    by Anya, Lifestyle Dominant

    (about 25 books in this list, seems like it is a great list. It has Come hither in it)

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8765635/sr=5-2/ref=sr_5_2/002-0462390-2712035

    Listmania!
    BDSM Nonfiction
    by Send_Me_Books, Literary dominatrix, a pro

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8765635/sr=5-1/ref=sr_5_1/002-0462390-2712035

    One More and i think this is more of a Fictional list

    Listmania!
    Recomandations for the perverted intellect.
    by princess_dominique, Dominant intellectual

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...8766658/sr=5-1/ref=sr_5_1/002-0462390-2712035

    <Edited for the input of the Ethical Slut>

    The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
    by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...7/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-0462390-2712035

    Similiar books to The Ethical Slut :

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/s...2520slut&store-name=books/002-0462390-2712035


    Curtsy of Amazon.com. In no way do i recommend or am advertising these books. In reality i havent read many of them! But now that i know where to find them.
     
  4. masoomdon

    masoomdon New Member

    wow thanks a lot for your instant advice and i hope to read as many of these above books as time permits. am really gratefull for ur advice. i hope i have a nice time here.
     

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