Names for a boy and his lady

JettOnly · Dec 11, 2011

Well two days in and he is being such a good little boy
As I said it is tease and denial long distance at the moment, he is a bit too used to pleasing himself when he wants (all the time) so he is struggling quite a bit already - and I havent even been mean yet!
Hes in his chastity cage which I am impressed that he has taken to so well - I did say he could take it easy with that if needed and break it in gently - but nope its on except when I let him take it off to play - what a good boy

Day 1 rules very simple - he could play 3 times for 15 min - 13 min slow strokes, 2 min fast
then stop and back in cage (while of course thanking me for letting him play)

No porn no touching any other part of his body an a sexual way

Day 2 was 2 times the same as day 1 - and 3rd time was to edge himself 3 times (till he almost cums) and then stop play

I also asked him to keep a diary of how he was getting on with it as he hasnt been very chatty about it so it is difficult to judge how easy difficult it is for him

very very fun - well for me!

JettOnly · Dec 12, 2011

He tried to call me mistress and got a 'did I ask you to call me mistress?'

But clearly it was bugging him not to have something to call me
I finally got him to call me bitch (he was asking how I was planning on using a new toy on him - usually I tell him to stop asking - but this time I sent some VERY grahic texts to him while he was at work - broke them up and sent one every couple of hours - I believe it hurts a bit to get excited in chastity

and he was VERY excited - so after the 4th txt he called me a bitch

'lady bitch to you'

and that is what I have been called ever since

Think all the teasing today has made things very difficult, not to mention that today while he plays with himself he also has to play with his ass - think the extra stimulation is making things a whole lot more difficult - he is being a whole lot more vocal now

and very attentive

I might go easy(ish) on him tomorow

Foreverbunny91 · Dec 13, 2011

Oh my! That's a lot of fun to be having online! I think you're rather good at it

Have you discussed wearing an anal plug?

JettOnly · Dec 13, 2011

It is way too much fun, I can't wait to do this in the flesh

I have thought about the butplug but possibly not this time, he is very close to having an accident so I'm thinking of letting him out soon
Hopefully the pride that he made it and how amazing his release is gonna feel will mean he will want to play again really soon
Although I am thinking of sending him an article i found showing the benifits of keeping a guy locked up for 90 days, that will put his 4. Days into perspective lol and make him a little worried

JettOnly · Dec 14, 2011

Interesting the power in a name
yesterday after me continuing to tease him at his work his task for the evening was to shave himself, then soap up and play with himself for 5 min, then back in his cage

From his texts and his diary posts I can really see a change in his mindset, it is really interesting, and very flattering to so how obviously he thinks about me all day now
So to show him I was happy with what he was doing I asked him if he would like me to be his mistress now and let him call me that

He admitted later that the shaving was very difficult for him because he just wanted me there touching him, and that me being his mistress made him very happy
one little word has made such a change in him

I noticed he was online really late last night, turns out he couldnt calm down enough to sleep so I phoned him up and chatted to him for a while
Really interesting, he never told me before but he really wasnt sure if he would be able to sub especially for this amount of time as in the past he has started freaking out (I didnt push for explinations as I was trying to get him to sleep)

I was a little worried that I was overdoing the teasing for him during the day but it seems that he really needs to know I am thinking about him to

This is a really interesting journy for me, and hopefully him.

Unfortunatly at work today he has hurt his back so he cant do any play at all, I chatted to him a little bit again to make sure he is OK. I was going to let him free tonight - before he hurt himself, but chatting tonight he really is enjoying this, although it is tough for him that just one word from me and he is painfully hard.

Totaly interesting because I really didnt think I could ever be dom, didnt see the attraction in causing people pain and sexually I very much like pleasing other people - so thinking of telling someone what I want just stressed me out

But I think the time with my subdrop (thankyou all for helping me there) I had to really think about why things were wrong for me
I think not only do I have a better idea of what I need in that situation - and hopefully I am being more like that in the domme I am playing just now
But I also though about the things I love the most
and one of those things is the cocktease you have at the start of a relationship, the little dance where you feel him holding back, really wanting you but afraid to. The gasps and shudders as you do any little thing to him

So I dont know if that would count as dom kind of control type things - but it is something I very much like
and with this chastity thing I am able to get a guy into that state 24/7
and I dont have to be nasty, or punish, or controling or anything
I can cause pain with a smile
and he will obay anything i ask because the biggest punishment is i get bored and ignore him for a short while

Sorry for rambling on - hope Ive not bored the pants off you all. Im leaarning so much and it halps to ramble here

Exploring2dark · Dec 15, 2011

So has someone found a new direction to go with her interests? LOL! Congrats!

dozuki · Dec 15, 2011

I find it very interesting and will be following this thread to see how it goes with your sub. (insert funny comment about pants)

JettOnly · Dec 16, 2011

lol exploring, I am pretty sure this is not a full time thing, I dont think I have a direction to go in - just what feels fun at the time

Doz lol feel free to add pants jokes

Well today not really so good anyways. One of his (few) rules is after he has played he txt's me and thanks me. He has been a little slow with that and again today I had to remind him
It does actually annoy me a little because he is so good at asking for permission but not thanking afterwards

So, sigh, I decided that we needed a little incentive to remind him
I have revoked the right to play with his ass while he plays and now before he starts playing he has to put nipple clamps on which cannot be removed until he texts me afterwards for permission

Should jog his memory hopefully

Prob would be really cruel to point out to him that I was going to let him cum on wed - but couldnt cos he had hurt himself - and couldnt today because he was being punished - so hes making it worse for himself

But he has not been comunicating at all since then. I sent him is tasks for tomorow and he thanked me - but no conversation and he hasnt even got back to me when i asked how his back is - so I will have to talk to him

anyways - hopefully I can sort out his sulks or whatever tomorow. If he is good he will deff be getting to cum tomorow because that has been a week and i dont want to push it too far.

But
Hopefully this will be something I get to do again soon, I will give him the choice to continue or take a break
So
I would love to pick you guys brains for more imaginative ways I can get him to play with himself
Next time to do want to see if I can get him to ruin an orgasm
and possibly some playing with different fabrics
and different positions like standing looking in the mirror or on all 4's

- but of course not being 'equiped' to know what really feels good I am limited with what i can think up

Oh yeah forgot to say his task tomorow is to tie his legs to a chair and watch porn for 15 min without touching himself, if hes hard he can play with himself till he edges 2 times then he is to contact me (and if he has been good thats when he will get to cum)
If he cant stay hard for the 15 min then he dosent get to touch himself - he thinks this one will be easy as he is pretty much constantly hard now

Exploring2dark · Dec 16, 2011

I am a fan of abstinence! Nothing like extreme anticipation to enhance the desired result.. Well done!

Smallest · Dec 16, 2011

E2D, you might wanna avoid dark text + dark background...

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