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Help. My wife has lost respect
Hi all. I am new here as a user, but have known an read this site for a long time. I hope you can read and understand what i write. English is not my language.
Well, now for my problem. I really need help. shortly: my wife (we are not married but it´s easyest to call her my wife) has said that she won´t be my submissive anymore. We have known each other for eight years and love each other very much. Unfortunately there has been quite at lot of issues in our time: problems with our children (we have a son each), economical problems, health problems, stress at work and so on. We are both very active sexually and have had the time of our lifes with me as dominant and her as sub, but during problems the activity has dropped.
A couple of years ago she announced that she could not be my submissive 24/7 but only in bed and not every time in bed. I accepted it because there was some problems and i knew she needed some time. I felt it eventually became better, but then she lately had a surgery that still causes her some pain.
During all our time together i have had a lust for bondage. Me in bondage, even trough i an the dominant type. She has tried to tie me up and use toys on me several times. I like it and she has been good at it, but also told that it was not a huge turn on to her. I don´t consider my self as a switch, but she does. She can´t see me as a dominant that just love bondage too.
So yesterday she told me that she couldn´t respect me as a dominant anymore and that it would never come back. I said that i thought we should talk about it, find a goal to go for, find out what we really want both, but she just said that it would never come back.
I don´t know what to do. We have done more bondage on me than usual, because of her pain, and i thought it was ok for her. That was only so that we could have some kind of kinky sex. My dream is to have her as a 24/7 submissive in some way. I really think i could do i well.
I love her so much and i know she loves me very much too, but i am not shure that we can live without that kind of sexlife in all future.
Any comments or questions?
I will of course talk to her about it again today
Hi all. I am new here as a user, but have known an read this site for a long time. I hope you can read and understand what i write. English is not my language.
Well, now for my problem. I really need help. shortly: my wife (we are not married but it´s easyest to call her my wife) has said that she won´t be my submissive anymore. We have known each other for eight years and love each other very much. Unfortunately there has been quite at lot of issues in our time: problems with our children (we have a son each), economical problems, health problems, stress at work and so on. We are both very active sexually and have had the time of our lifes with me as dominant and her as sub, but during problems the activity has dropped.
A couple of years ago she announced that she could not be my submissive 24/7 but only in bed and not every time in bed. I accepted it because there was some problems and i knew she needed some time. I felt it eventually became better, but then she lately had a surgery that still causes her some pain.
During all our time together i have had a lust for bondage. Me in bondage, even trough i an the dominant type. She has tried to tie me up and use toys on me several times. I like it and she has been good at it, but also told that it was not a huge turn on to her. I don´t consider my self as a switch, but she does. She can´t see me as a dominant that just love bondage too.
So yesterday she told me that she couldn´t respect me as a dominant anymore and that it would never come back. I said that i thought we should talk about it, find a goal to go for, find out what we really want both, but she just said that it would never come back.
I don´t know what to do. We have done more bondage on me than usual, because of her pain, and i thought it was ok for her. That was only so that we could have some kind of kinky sex. My dream is to have her as a 24/7 submissive in some way. I really think i could do i well.
I love her so much and i know she loves me very much too, but i am not shure that we can live without that kind of sexlife in all future.
Any comments or questions?
I will of course talk to her about it again today
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