That's basically my problem, she told me she prefers if a guy shaves everything and says body hair is a turn off. My problem is I feel comfortable with my hairy chest, and I feel like shaving it would make me less masculine. Plus I don't wanna deal with the itchy feeling. I suppose I could compromise and do it anyway, but wouldn't that be submitting? I know it's a double standard since I don't like body hair on women either, so that's why I'm stuck because I don't wanna seem unfair. It's just all making me feel insecure and less dominant. Any advice?