So, I've had a fantasy for some time now, of being in a relationship with a submissive woman, but not really as a master so much as the dominant companion. In the fantasy, she wears a collar like she'd wear a wedding ring, all the time. It reminds her of who owns her, and this makes her feel safe and valued. Beyond that fact, the bondage and domination stays in our sex life, there is never a time where she isn't allowed to speak or choose for herself. Until the ropes go on and the gag goes in, she is every bit an equal with feelings and skills and big ideas like anyone else. Just not after, of course, because she likes it that way. I personally feel valued from this fantasy, like I make someone complete, and I feel loved for being relied on so deeply. This is more of a romance thing then a sexual thing, I think. Still I find myself think about this fantasy of mine more and more, and I suppose I want it to happen. Anyone seen/heard of/participated in such a relationship, or something similar? I'd like to hear some stories, or similar fantasies. I'm not even sure people exist who would like something like this, maybe its just me.