For 6 years my husband and I have been into BDSM. I was the submisive one so you know had which role. But a year this all changed when he was in a very bad car accident. He survived after being in a coma for a month. But ever since then when I try to be submisive with him he has no interest in it. It feels wrong because we were both very into it. He still loves me, but he told me that he doesnt feel right anymore about it. I even tried him being my slave for a while, but neither of us enjoyed that. Is there any way I can get him back into how he was or is what we had lost forever? If we cant go back to how we were this wont hurt our relationship to were we will split, we have a lot more that holds us together. We do have sex still, but it is the "normal" sex. The whole in and out jazz.