My Girl Cums Too Fast

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by TangoAlpha, May 24, 2011.

  1. TangoAlpha

    TangoAlpha New Member

    I know it sounds like I'm complaining, and I'm really not, but the girl that is my Sub comes way too fast. We've only tried BDSM a couple times and so far it's been great. She's into pain, teasing, extreme temps (hot wax then straight to ice type thing) but each time she came so fast. I would like to draw it out more, make her beg for it, but it's almost like she can cum at will.

    Any ideas would help. Oh and the first time she came was when I was spanking her pussy (not hard, but not lightly) and the second time I had been swatting her thighs and just randomly shoved my finger in her pussy.
  2. Mistress X

    Mistress X New Member

    i would personally tell her that she is not allowed to cum until you say so. and make that absolutely clear. then if the sub disobeys: do sexual denial, then slowly and very slowly start up again with sexual stuff. but keep up with non-direct things all the while. ie- tie up naked or whatever your sub calls for
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    One thing that generally works with guys is to get the sub to the edge of orgasm and then to back off. Have her tell you when she's getting close, and then stop what you're doing and let her rest. Then start up again.
  4. TangoAlpha

    TangoAlpha New Member

    hey thanks guys, we're meeting up tomorrow, i'll let you know how it goes
  5. Maybe even shoot a vid our way. ;) But my bitch had the same problem we had her clitoris hood pierced. That actually made her last a bit longer.

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