I know it sounds like I'm complaining, and I'm really not, but the girl that is my Sub comes way too fast. We've only tried BDSM a couple times and so far it's been great. She's into pain, teasing, extreme temps (hot wax then straight to ice type thing) but each time she came so fast. I would like to draw it out more, make her beg for it, but it's almost like she can cum at will. Any ideas would help. Oh and the first time she came was when I was spanking her pussy (not hard, but not lightly) and the second time I had been swatting her thighs and just randomly shoved my finger in her pussy.