Hi there! Fisrt post and a serious question, directed to BDSM professionists (maybe even someone who does this for a living). I like BDSM, and in particular I love whippings: not just erotic sessions, every whipping scene turns me on. I could say that this is the only form of sadomaso that I enjoy, since most extreme things such as needles, waxing and other tortures, personally I don't like. My girlfriend is fond of bondage, as she's submissive and enjoys being verbally abused by me; plus, she enjoys situations in which she's under my control, where she poses as my slavegirl and sort. But she never asks me to whip her. Now, I think that being physically abused could turn her on, as she told me that in the past she had some "fantasies", so in her deep she has a masochistic verge, but for now whippings remain a rare occurence. How could I awaken her masochistic side? What are good techniques to adopt to make her enjoy and being aroused by a good whipping? Keep in mind that we are a responsible couple, happily engaged and respectful of each other feelings, so no "just tie her to the bed and whip her until she screams and begs for mercy". We strictly adopt the SSC point of view. Thanks for your help.