Mistress Hard times

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Mistressritsuka, Jul 4, 2011.

  1. Mistressritsuka

    Mistressritsuka New Member

    I recently let go my slave and now I'm trying to find another one but it seems so hard to do any advice ?
  2. Randomguy86

    Randomguy86 Member

    What exactly do you find hard? For example, finding someone compatible? Not having enough time to look? Don't know where to look? etc
  3. Mistressritsuka

    Mistressritsuka New Member

    I don't know where to look or find somebody right for the spot because my last slave was a 24/7 online and text so should I look for that kinda relationship or try completely different?
  4. Randomguy86

    Randomguy86 Member

    I suppose it depends on what you really want. Were you fully satisfied with things the way they were?

    You said you had to let the last slave go. Was there a reason? Maybe the lack of a 'human' presence was frustrating for you?

    Your best bet is to have a long and hard think about what you want/need and what you are willing to do. Then when you got that figured out, hit up some sites like collarme.com or fetlife.com and start chatting : ) or attend some local bdsm meetings (if your town/city has them) and maybe meet some people?

    Anyway hope that helps : )
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Find your local munch and get to know people there. You may find a slave there, or you may find people who know someone that might be a good match.

    Advertising on multiple sites is also a good idea.
  6. chaoticist

    chaoticist New Member

    Welcome to the club. I'm pretty sure everyone, whether top, bottom, switch, plain vanilla, or poly swinger has had the same problem. It's a fact of life that finding partners isn't easy. Only advice I can say is the more people you meet, the harder you look, the more likely you are to find someone. For slaves, try online groups like this, fetlife, collarme (if you can stand the flakes and fantasists), as well as local bdsm meets, clubs, and just random real life stuff (vanillas can be converted!).

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