meet a mistress/buddy

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by needamistress, Jul 8, 2010.

  1. needamistress

    needamistress New Member

    So I'm new to this, and the videos and pictures don't interest me so much as the actual act. what's a good, free, and safe way to meet a mistress?
  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Find your local munch and use it to make contact with the bdsm community in your area. Attend a few meetings and let people know what you're looking for. Ask for suggestions about who might be looking for a sub and who has a reputation for safe, sane, consensual play.

    You might also ask at your local women's sex shop. Unlike a regular porn store, a woman's sex shop will frequently have a bulletin board that advertising events and the like, they will often have classes and talks by experts, and the staff may well know who you can contact to make connections. And you won't have to worry about the place smelling like lysol.

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