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He just says he likes whatever I do but whenever I'm doing it he always acts up, laughs or jokes around and it throws me off. I got some surprises coming for him this weekend including under bed restraints and a butt plug. See if he is laughing then...
It sounds like 1 of 2 things is happening here.
1) He's being a bratty sub, trying to get you to be harsher with him.
2) He's uncomfortable with his submissive desires (feels ashamed of them or finds them to be in conflict with his masculinity), so he's trying to alleviate his emotional discomfort with jokes.
Regardless of why he's doing it, it's disrupting your sense of dominance. So talk to him and tell him that when he jokes, you feel less willing and able to be dominant with him. One of the best ways to undermine a dom's dominance is by treating it as not serious. I can't give commands if I don't have confidence that my slave wants to receive those commands; otherwise I feel foolish and frustrated. So without realizing it, he's undermining your ability to do what he wants you to do.
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