Right, I hope this is in the correct forum. I'm in London at uni, and she is in sheffield at uni. We got together a few months ago, and all seemed to be going well. We discovered eachothers fetishes and fantasies, and have had a few interesting encounters since. And it really seemed to be going somewhere. Naturally as its a long distance, we both had doubts, but we saw through them. Now a couple of days ago, she said it wasn't working out. I haven't seen her for a month or so... but was planning to visit in a couple of weeks. My question is, do you guys think its worth leaving it for a bit, and maybe pay her a surprise visit? Its weird, I've never managed to find a girl who's into the same things as me. Not only that, but we made connections on other levels. And I really don't want to lose this. She means the world to me, and I want her to know. What do you guys think?