Hello, I am very new to the forum and the BDSM lifestyle. I have been my Master's slave for a little over a month now. My Master and I have a six year vanilla relationship before that and decided to take things in the master/slave direction. As his slave, I am adapting well for I have always felt that my life was for others use. One thing that I am having trouble with is keeping things new and exciting in our relationship. I feel that all of the information out there about BDSM and things related to this topic are all the same. I have done research for the past four weeks, but I feel as though I have read the same information over and over. I would like some help here. I would like it if the more experienced BDSM members would suggest some of their favorite books or websites so that I can please my Master and be able to surprise him with something new. Again, we are only one month into the lifestyle but we have dabbled in BDSM before. I like pain play and my Master enjoys it when I dominate him sometimes. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I look forward to seeing your replies.