Discussion in 'General fetish discussions' started by Mariexo, Sep 20, 2009.
I like when my Master forces me to do things against my will, but only when I want him too....um.... lol
I don't want to be raped, but I enjoy it when my master "rapes" me, and when he ties me to his bed and uses me when ever he wants. I am somtimes tied up for hours. Just like my Master likes to 'rape' me in play, but nothing disgusts him more than rape.
But I think it is normal. Like I get turned on when thinking about things with multiple male partners at the same time, but I would never do it in real life and I dont enjoy the thought of it when thinking of it actually happening. If that makes sense.
Hope I helped.
it's not ok...for me
Rape play is about complete submission, whether you want to give it up or not. I love it, personally, and I actually have a craving for it tonight, lol.
As for the bf sleeping with a friend/family member, I sometimes imagine Master making me sleep with a friend/family member. Is that wrong? I wouldn't want to do it in real life, some things are taboo for good reason, but who does the fantasy hurt? Again, for me it's about surrendering complete control to my Master. I would be doing something that makes me incredible uncomfortable to please him... Isn't THAT what this lifestyle is about?
To clarify, I mean surrendering complete control, not just being uncomfortable all the time.
My X GF has a really hot sister, I would get her to tell me fantasies about her which turned her on alot. I think sleeping with a friend is fine as long as it is consensual to all parties involved and no jealosy or hangups.
I really enjoy the rape game. I often play it, as either the rapist or the victim. I really enjoy prison scenarios in my shower. Cuffed up and she made me drop the soap
I'm constantly craving rape play (with only Master, of course) but the problem is that a little incident happened.....-coughs- anyway, not gonna go into my fiance/Master's personal life, but the point is that she doesn't like rape. At all. Hell, it took me a good year and a half for me to be able to say it in front of her. Then I'd spaz whenever someone else said it in front of her, then when it was finally ok to say it I couldn't get the word out of my mouth ^^;; anyways, point is that I don't think Master will be able to fufill my fantasies fully.... -shrugs-
But yes, liking the rape game is normal.
I think you would be amazed at how many women fantasize about this.. myself included!!! ;0)
I used to think it was bizarre that I had rape fantasies so much - even as a young girl I thought about it almost anytime I fantasized about sex, but of course knew nothing about D/s relationships and the world of bdsm. I eventually realized that it wasn't that I wanted to get raped but that I wanted/needed to be a submissive/bottom and thus opening a whole new world to me and a better understanding of myself.
I can empathize subspace, i fantasized about rape a lot when I was a very young girl. It's weird how after feeling shame all those years, I find out later that a lot of people fantasize about the same things.
i too have the same fantasy - close your eyes and dream away
That's not likely to be the case, however. almost every situation I've heard of where a "third wheel" as it were got brought in to a relationship, somebody got jealous or decided that they didn't want to do it anymore. But there's a certain mentality that has to be shared by all parties in order for these things to happen.
The only problem with Rape Fantasies is that you can't rape the willing. xD its a little redundant, no?
Master (my new one, not the old one mentioned previously in this thread) "raped" me though, he woke me up by grabbing the blankets off and using me, though he was trying to teach me the difference between being used and being helpless. It didn't bother me too much except when he started playing with the clothespins, which hurts. He was trying to make me cry to teach me the lesson, though I don't think he expected me to like being used. xD Not all the time, mind you, but sometimes I crave the cold uncaring domination.
It's not just women who fantasize about it. A lot of gay men fantasize about it. Although I'm more dom than sub, I do occasionally dream about this. And I certainly think about being the rapist too, which disturbs me a little bit, perhaps because of how much it turns me on.
heh i wanna be rapist as well it's norm
Sounds fun. The idea of being at another person's mercy (or lack of). I especially like the idea of trying to escape and then being punished for it--of being tied down and then forced to submit.
The idea of rape turns me on, but yeah, only 'willing' rape
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