My boyfriend is my Master. We've been together for over a year. Is it odd that in the bedroom I am always the sub where as in the rest of life, I am always the bossy, confident, controlling one? Throughout life I like to give him a little smack here and there and I love to bite him but in the bedroom, it actually repulses me to think about dominating him. Any thoughts? Also, what are the best things to use to leave ligature marks? Thanks!