I've been curious about BDSM for a while before I came here, and knew at least a little, but even after being here for some time, it seems like there's very few cases of a guy being submissive to a girl. There's been gay and lesbian ones, and a lot of submissive girls to dominant guys, but hardly any of the reverse. So I'm kinda wondering why this is, I mean... I like being submissive, though that might be in part because I'm really not very good at being dominant, but on the few times I have been dominant, I didn't get as much from it as I do being submissive. Like the feeling of power and such, I don't get it, it just seems to me like being more demanding, something I don't like doing. And on the other hand, being submissive, somehow I like it more, I get more from it, it just... feels better to me. I really got to stop rambling on like that. Anyway, what do you all think?