Hello everyone! I'm currently a escort provider in my hometown.(please no flaming) I have recently been interested in BDSM and wanting to provide this to clients. I'm pretty sure I have a general idea about BDSM. I already love roleplay. My question is kind of fundamental but yet I can not find it anywhere. During a scene if you are a mistress and you are punishing a slave, or giving a good flogging does the submissive get off on any stimulation(meaning from me or himself) or is he "Getting off" on the scene/roleplay? Do any BDSM session/scenes involve actual sex?(such as intercourse or oral? Is this a different type of BDSM? I was also taking a look at some of BDSM gear. What gear is a good base to have for being a Mistress? What are some popular BDSM fetish gear?Seems like all the fun stuff is SOOO expensive! Likewise can anyone link me to a great online vendor? I need all the links to BDSM information you can throw at me. I'm interested in slaves,training, S&M, Nurse Fetish,roleplay,cock and ball torture and any other BDSM type fetishes that are common. Thanks!