I've been lurking this site for a little bit now and i am very much impressed. before now i didn't know people dedicated sites to s and m and i had to get all my info from books. but anyway. i was hoping you guys could help me. i have just recently gotten a new male lover who is interested in becoming my master. i have been in one other relationship with a femdom and loved it, but he is very much new to all this. i have done my best to supply him with lots of resources and answer all his questions but we have a hard time starting a sessions. i think hes afraid to let lose and risk of seeming awkward. any suggestions?