MistressMaria86
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Hello all,
I thought this would be the right place to ask. So have been chatting to a guy online for a little bit and since he found out about my 'little interest' he has been very keen to explore 'the other side'. He reckons that he has never done anything BDSM wise before but seems to have a strong desire for pain and mainly humiliation.
After some initial reservations I agreed to 'have a little session' on cam - he has one I dont so I can see him but he cant see me and to be honest I prefer it that way. So in my very limited experience (I think I might have even read this on here) I asked him to get an elastic band to put it on his wrist. If he did something I didnt like (and in this case it was answering a question incorrectly) I uttered the words 'you know what to do' and he had to snap the band.
I didnt really know what else to do besides asking him some questions and the session didnt last long. It was quite odd seeing him do this - am not entirely sure what I was getting out of it but nevertheless I gave it a go.
A couple of days later when I asked him about it he said he loved it and wanted more pain and more humiliation and this is where I run into trouble. What else can I ask him to do?? he asked me whether I wanted to see him pleasure himself. I was quite shocked - the irony of all this is that I am soooooo green when it comes to all this stuff - I had to be honest and say not really lol.
As for the humiliation again I am not sure I can really go there - its just not in my nature - at least not to someone I dont know that well (which possibly makes its sound worse lol). Is there anything anyone can suggest to help me get a little more in that mindset??
All advice appreciated.
Mistress M
I thought this would be the right place to ask. So have been chatting to a guy online for a little bit and since he found out about my 'little interest' he has been very keen to explore 'the other side'. He reckons that he has never done anything BDSM wise before but seems to have a strong desire for pain and mainly humiliation.
After some initial reservations I agreed to 'have a little session' on cam - he has one I dont so I can see him but he cant see me and to be honest I prefer it that way. So in my very limited experience (I think I might have even read this on here) I asked him to get an elastic band to put it on his wrist. If he did something I didnt like (and in this case it was answering a question incorrectly) I uttered the words 'you know what to do' and he had to snap the band.
I didnt really know what else to do besides asking him some questions and the session didnt last long. It was quite odd seeing him do this - am not entirely sure what I was getting out of it but nevertheless I gave it a go.
A couple of days later when I asked him about it he said he loved it and wanted more pain and more humiliation and this is where I run into trouble. What else can I ask him to do?? he asked me whether I wanted to see him pleasure himself. I was quite shocked - the irony of all this is that I am soooooo green when it comes to all this stuff - I had to be honest and say not really lol.
As for the humiliation again I am not sure I can really go there - its just not in my nature - at least not to someone I dont know that well (which possibly makes its sound worse lol). Is there anything anyone can suggest to help me get a little more in that mindset??
All advice appreciated.
Mistress M
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