I think I'm about to have gay sex for the first time

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by junepaul, Aug 18, 2011.

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  1. junepaul

    junepaul New Member

    I'm an 18 boy, and moving to a new area for school and have found a LGBT underwear party in town the night I move in. It's an anything goes party with some BDSM play, which I've been interested in a lot lately. Basically I'm really, really, really turned on by the idea of going to this thing in three days and having gay sex with strangers (it's all condoms, no bareback fyi). I've had fantasies about nasty gay sex with men forever but have only thus far had relationships with women. I've developed some serious kinks and have this sudden insatiable urge to let them out. I want to have penetrative anal sex with a man, receiving and maybe giving. I want to switch roles and become the submissive partner and explore the submissive side of my sexuality. I want Him to take me into a private cubby and slowly insert himself inside of me, taking my virginity. I'm feelings things I imagine a girl does - I want to act like a girl and have someone inside of me, using me like a toy.

    I want to submit fully to my partner. I want Him to put a collar and leash on me, maybe even a facemask, and walk me around and play with me in front of others. I want Him to take me anally and treat me like His pet.

    God...I'm getting so unbelievably horny just thinking about this. So my question is...what should I prepare for? I know the basics - lube, slow, etc. - but what do Dom gay guys like in their subs? I want to make him think I'm a sex kitten. Any advice appreciated. Thank you.
     
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  2. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    We have a really good gay Dom here I think he'll answer your question
     
    Last edited: Aug 18, 2011
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    I'm guessing that Jey's referring to me (thanks for the compliment, Jey!--I'm still waiting to use you) What gay men want is pretty varied, just the way it is with straight men, but in general, gay men tend to be attracted to men. Some gay doms are interested in feminizing a sub, but overall, I think most will tend to gravitate toward masculinity, so your best bet is to come off as masculine, boy next door, etc. If he wants to feminize you, he'll indicate that.
     
  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Oh, and at a gay sex party, it's safest to assume that everyone there is potentially HIV positive. Do not, under any circumstances, succumb to the temptation to do unprotected anal sex, either as a top or a bottom. It's not worth the risk. Some guys will offer you poppers (an inhaled chemical in a small bottle)--poppers aren't dangerous by themselves (unless you're taking viagra--then it's a recipe for a heart attack), but they do tend to lead people to do risky stuff. So my advice is to pass on the poppers. You certainly don't need them to enjoy anal sex.
     
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