I regret trying bdsm

Ton2910 · Jul 9, 2012

How do I get help for it?

I've not left the house hardly since it happened it affected me a lot.

Smallest · Jul 9, 2012

In that case, I really do have to echo what the others said. You should see a professional

wendywatkins · Jul 9, 2012

Could be an insane form of sub-drop.... I wonder if your domme gave you good aftercare? Doesn't really sound like it to me.

Smallest · Jul 10, 2012

I wouldn't call anything having this much of an effect on his life just sub drop, although i agree that it could be an element

Sparrow69 · Jul 10, 2012

I agree with sebastian here, I think there were some major underlying issues that you hadn't dealth with that being submissive brought out. I couldn't even begin to figure out the issue with so little information and I doubt anyone could.

Beyond that, I find the blaming of bdsm more then slightly offensive. Clearly you didn't decide to try bdsm on a whim, and like everyone else who has ever voluntarily engaged in bdsm, they did so because they felt something off in their life, even if on a subconscious level. The fact you knew something was wrong and when it wasn't fixed by bdsm in a single session you so quickly condemn it as being the problem in your life, is the same as people saying "if he'd have never tried marijuana back in college he wouldn't have tried harder drugs."
You are placing undue blame on something that has nothing to do with your problems, and you need to seek help before you ostracize yourself from the only community that openly accepts anyone regardless of their faults and quirks.

thinmint7 · Jul 18, 2012

I agree with Sebastian and Sparrow! We could never guess for sure but I would set up an appointment with a psychiatrist or psychologist and talk through some things. Something this severe will take time and strength to work through, anxiety is really hard!! I would definitely tell someone you trust that you want to seek help for support. I would not think BDSM and social anxieties/phobias are highly linked with out a bases of instability.

On the other hand the account of your feelings sounds a little like you were taken too far and are feeling shame/guilt because you feel others will think down on you for letting someone have power over you. In this case, I would seek out a victim support group or a psychologist, once again.

It may seem overwhelming now but things were ok before this and they can always get better; you have the power to make things better.

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