I am new to the lifestyle, and am wondering, how do I get started. I was in a previous, disfunctional relationship for about 4 years. There was no sex life and out of frustration I convinced myself that I didn't need it or want it. However, when I stumbled onto this lifestyle, I got excited. Can anyone give me some ideas as to where to start? Articles, examples, anything? ...a noob trying to become a master dom!