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War, the real issue here is theoretical. BDSM is consensual power exchange. It is inappropriate (and immoral) to involve people who have not given their consent. When it's just dom and sub involved, they're the only ones who have to give their consent. But when you use, for example, the maid at a hotel as a tool for humiliating the sub, you're involving the maid without her consent. She didn't ask to be the audience for your sex game, she probably doesn't want to be the audience, and being the audience may cause her emotional distress. She may be grossed out, morally offended, scared, embarrassed, or any number of other things, but she hasn't agreed to get involved. So involving her is, quite plainly, rude behavior on your part, and a violation of the principle of SSC.
If you're going to do public humiliation, the basic rule is that it needs to be done in such a way that the audience doesn't realize what's going on, or else mistakes what's happening for something else. For example, making the sub go pantyless at a shopping mall--the humiliation is in the risk of being spotted, not in the actually being spotted.
If it's really important that others see the sub's humiliation, hold a party for other doms and subs. Go to a sex club, where that sort of activity is expected. Go to a clothing-option resort or B&B. In other words, go somewhere that you can assume those present give consent to seeing some sexual activity. Don't abuse the innocent, hard-working staff of a regular hotel--they don't get paid enough to put up with your sexual activity. Trust me, no hotel maid wants to clean a room where she knows a lot of sex has been taking place.
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